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¨Don’t Judge people based on their mistake¨

I have read countless articles about women having affairs with married men. Many articles keep saying that the woman is bad, or both people are bad. This may be true in a lot of cases. But every single situation is different. Take the case of a married man who has an arranged marriage. He has since changed so much that he would never have agreed to marry his wife now. He has kids and is just staying with her for the children. It is impossible for him to divorce but he loves another woman. That woman knows that can never divorce and has never asked him to and never will. She knows it would be wrong for him to get divorced. But no one must ever judge these 2 people. The simple fact of the matter is they truly have fallen in love and love each other deeply and it is a very different love to arranged marriage love. He arranged marriage love has to work and it is a business love. The other woman knows this and has to be strong to accept this. She has no intention of ever wrecking the marriage but has to accept the current situation. But both cannot stop loving each other. To all those people who judge - the power of true and real love is very very strong. And some people have affairs simply because they are now married to the wrong person. Everyone changes in their life. You know its really possible for 2 married people to change and be different to the person they married. Mr. N changes so much through various work and life issues, his wife Mrs. N is exactly the same person he married 10 years ago. You know this does happen and thats why marriage "is not a word its a sentence,a life sentence" my favorite saying bout marriage. Some people change beyond all recognition and through this change find the person they really would prefer to be with now.